Wednesday, January 27, 2021

It's Been a Year!, Part 2

 My previous post listed all the books I read in 2020. It was interesting for me to see what themes and messages I was ingesting while the year progressed. Because the post is fairly long, I thought I'd create a shorter version of my reading list. If you want to read the original post, where I give a brief summary of each book, you can access it here.

The First Book Kind of Set the Tone for the Year!

A Case of Blackmail in Belgravia- Clara Benson

This was a quick read mystery. I enjoyed it, but the ending note I had about the book says, "Then the story turns dark and pretty gruesome."

I read this book early in the year. Dark and gruesome... Ummmm...Covid was on the way.

Grappling With Issues of Race and Politics

Allah-A Christian Response-Miroslav Volf
The Vanishing Half-Brit Bennett
The Hate U Give-Angie Thomas
The Third Option-Miles McPhearson
Dream With Me-John M. Perkins
When a Nation Forgets God-Erwin Lutzer
Compassion and Conviction-Justin Giboney

I already had a desire to learn more about loving those not like me, evident in the Muslim book I read early on. After George Floyd's death, I really wanted to build empathy for the black community. I appreciate the four books I picked for that purpose. The theme of learning how to work alongside those not like me was important this year when it came to politics, also. Justin Giboney's book and the Nation that Forgets God, were helpful in bringing balance about how to view the huge chasm between people surrounding the presidential election this year. 

Has The World Really Come To This?

Total Truth-Nancy Pearson
Fahrenheit 451-Ray Bradbury
Grace From the Rubble-Jeanne Bishop

I believe we were set up for the extreme polarization that we saw among our legislators. Nancy Pearson's book, Total Truth certainly builds a case for how we as a culture let go of absolute truth and traded it for our own interpretations. How often did we hear about "fake" news? Lying became fashionable; our own president leading the way as one of the worst offenders. The term "alternate facts" was coined in this year. Is Fahrenheit 451 prophetic in how a society gradually devalues knowledge built on facts and holds no honor for the lessons learned in history? As we look at the future and wonder where a more progressive government will lead us, are we paving the way for left leaning policies because we've forgotten what it means to work together and not trust anyone outside our tribe? That fighting is the only way to get what we want because the other side is totally evil and not to be trusted? Will it matter that stories like the Oklahoma fathers, whose sons would have been considered enemies, can teach us how to offer forgiveness to one another? 

What About Me?

Created for Connection-Sue Johnson, Ken Sanderfer and Dr. Johnson
Who Am I?-Jeff Little
Every Good Endeavor-Timothy Keller 

How do I stay connected to my people? Will I draw closer to those I love, so I feel safe when my fragility and insecurities leave me wondering who I really am? Because I'm just starting retirement, how will I find those good endeavors for my life, now that I'm not going to work every day? 

Biographies

Thirst-Scott Harrison
Burn Your Bed-Ed Speyers
Following Jesus-about Tanneken Fros
The Beauty in Breaking- Michele Harper
Before You Quit-Doug Gehman

The biographies on the list remind me that God-like people can inspire us to stay the course, and Mr. Gehman tells me how to endure so that I don't give up when the journey brings trouble. Covid was trouble, and it was good to be encouraged by his words.

Fiction Escapes (Not mentioned in another category)

Long Way Gone-Charles Martin
Wish You Well-David Baldacci
The God of the Hive-Laurie King
Mildred Budge in Cloverdale-Daphne Simpson
The House of Closed Doors-Jane Stein
Beantown Girls-Jane Healey
The Unfinished Gift-Dan Welsh

Praise God for fiction books to lighten things up and bring a relief from heavy thinking and a brief reprieve from reality. I think my favorite in this genre was Mildred Budge. She made me laugh. I judged her as simple, until she was not, and she let me see how an ordinary life can make a difference.

I wonder what books I will discover in 2021?



It's Been a Year!

Somehow, the 2020 year seemed endless. After thinking through the year and writing my Christmas newsletter, I realized I had forgotten events that happened before the virus took control. Those things seemed part of another year, forgotten after the all-consuming Covid intruder stole our attention.

While the year brought many changes and restrictions, I did have time to read. I thought it'd be fun to look back over the list of the books I read in 2020. Do they fit into any kind of theme or underlying message I was unconsciously absorbing?

Here are the 27 books in the order read:

A Case of Blackmail in Belgravia- Clara Benson

This was a quick read mystery. I enjoyed it, but the ending note I had about the book says, "Then the story turns dark and pretty gruesome."

Allah-A Christian Response-Miroslav Volf

Volf is trying to make the point that Christians and Muslims have the same God. I'm not sure if I agree with him, but it did help me to understand that he isn't writing the book as a guide for how to bring Muslims to salvation, but rather presenting a perspective to consider that might help Christians and Muslims work together and appreciate their similarities.  He brings up an interesting point that Christians don't object to believing that Jews and Christians pray to the same God. 

Thirst-Scott Harrison

This was an inspirational memoir of the founder and CEO of Charity:Water, an organization that works to bring good drinking water to underprivileged communities around the world. Scott tells his story from his early years to being a night club recruiter to working with Mercy Ship and then to drilling wells in Africa. He was transformed by Jesus Christ. "Amazing story of how God uses this man and the work he is doing around the world. Scott has amazing gifts-passion, bullheadedness, determination, lots of energy and vision.

Who Am I?-Jeff Little  (Read for a church wide study)

Hopefully, I've dealt with a lot of my insecurities by this time in my life, but there is always more that needs Christ's transformation. Jeff uses Bible characters to exemplify the common themes of our insecurities, Moses-feeling unqualified, Ruth-dealing with aloneness...

Total Truth-Nancy Pearson

A hefty read and very thought provoking. The author explains how we got from a culture of traditionalism to modernism to post modernism. There is now a fact/value split. Where once our personal preferences were overlaid on the foundation of public norms, scientific knowledge and facts that were binding on everyone, now our values and individual choices are solely judged and accepted as what is right by the individual's feelings or own experience. Religion is ok as long as it doesn't pretend to be knowledge. Quoting from the book, "Christians must find ways to make it clear that we are making claims about reality, not merely our subjective experience...Christianity is not an irrational, upper story leap, but a comprehensive truth that meets the human hunger for an overarching, consistent worldview. As Christians we are not offering a subjective private faith that is immune to rational scrutiny." There are certain universal truths of common sense. We are constructed according to God's image, live in God's universe and are upheld by His common grace that we all share.

Long Way Gone-Charles Martin

It's always a pleasant read when you've got a Charles Martin novel in hand. I never have to brace myself for scenes that violate my conscience, and yet he is not a fluffy religious fiction writer. One of my remarks on this book was, "There were some parts that were too unrealistic." Imagined life is sometimes like that. :)

Wish You Well-David Baldacci

Setting is in the VA mountains. A lawyer fights against big business to keep a property for a widow and her grandchildren. A different story for the author who writes a lot of spy mystery and suspense. Enjoyable.

Every Good Endeavor-Timothy Keller

We read this as an assignment for an outreach our church is starting for those who are lacking a job or want to get a better job. Keller explains how work was always God's design and purpose for his creation. Christians do his work. So what about the good accomplished by non-Christians? Since we are all made in the image of God we can look for the good and true in everyone, acknowledging that all Christians are subject to idolatrous tendencies. We humbly need to stay submitted to our Creator. It's that common grace theme again.

Burn Your Bed-Ed Speyers

Great biography of the author and his wife and their work in Suriname. Well written and very interesting.

The Faith of a Child-Art Murphy

This was donated to the church library. It was published in 2000. I chose not to add it to the library. There were some good things to say about recognizing where a child is at in their faith and how to encourage their faith. Not sure I agree with the emphasis on finding just the right time to have the child "saved". I think children are continually learning and their growth path is unique to each one.

The God of the Hive-Laurie King

Another good Sherlock Holmes and Mary Russell novel. 

Following Jesus-Tanneken Fros

This is Tanneken's story. I enjoyed learning more about her life and how God has used her. "She is an amazing woman with a single heart for God."

Farenheit 451-Ray Bradbury

What if the quest for knowledge and reading books was taken out of a society? Not just not present, but considered the enemy and any violators would be hunted own, their houses burned and their lives likely over? Quote near the end of the book-"Someday the load [of books] we're carrying with us may help someone. But even when we had the books on hand, a long time go, we didn't use what we got out of them. We went right on insulting the dead. We went right on spitting in the graves of all the poor ones who died before us. We're going to meet a lot of lonely people...and when they ask us what we're doing, you can say, 'We're remembering.' That's where we win out in the long run. And someday we'll remember so much that we'll build the biggest...steam shovel in history and dig the biggest grave in all history and shove war in and cover it up..."

The Vanishing Half-Brit Bennett

In light of the racial tension our country went through the summer of 2020, this turned out to be a very timely read.  It's about two sisters who approach their almost white skin life very differently. One marries a white man, never revealing her background. The other marries a very dark skinned man.

Mildred Budge in Cloverdale-Daphne Simpson

Just a little Christian fiction read  I had on my Kindle. It reminded me of Jan Karon's books. The protagonist is relatable and honest with an ordinary life lived alone, and full of surprises when it counts!

The Hate U Give-Angie Thomas

A book I chose to read to build empathy for our black population. It highlights the disparities they face in their normal lives. I don't want to lose this desire to be part of what it will take to have a country where all are treated equitably.

The House of Closed Doors-Jane Stein

Historical fiction. How out of wedlock pregnancy was handled in the late 19th century. A mystery. Clean and interesting read. 

The Third Option-Miles McPhearson

A black man pleads with us to take option 3. Not one side or another, but both-honoring one another, waking in forgiveness and confession, living not in fear, but blessing others, recognizing God's design in each of us, to hold honorable assumptions about individuals and groups, to have grace with each other in conversations about race, accountable to each other.

The Beauty in Breaking- Michele Harper

Black medical doctor shares her stories of people she worked with and on in the ER. Not a Christian perspective.

Grace From the Rubble-Jeanne Bishop

"It's a story of forgiveness offered and how father's bonded over love for their children. Oklahoma bombing. Very touching and good."

When a Nation Forgets God-Erwin Lutzer

A pretty balanced view on the political scene. It calls God's people to repentance and being about the business of our heavenly kingdom.

Compassion and Conviction-Justin Giboney

Very timely read for how God's people are to engage in politics.Truth and Love should always guide our actions and decisions. We love others who disagree with us and seek ways to work together, without compromising our convictions. I outlined each chapter with the main points because I really want to understand how to get this subject right. This year has forced us to be engaged in politics, whether we wanted to or not.

Created for Connection-Sue Johnson, Ken Sanderfer and Dr. Johnson

The authors developed a therapy for couples-EFT, emotionally focused therapy. It's been successful in creating more secure relationships. Key questions is Are you there for me? A.R.E. accessible, responsive and engaged. Need to be safe havens for each other. Closeness to God and loving connection with others works in tandem. Feeling loved makes us kinder and more tolerant to all. Healthy dependency. 

Dream With Me-John M. Perkins

I appreciate this author and his passion for bringing the church together to become that diverse body that will be around the throne of heaven in worship. 

Before You Quit-Doug Gehman

"Perseverance in growth always requires trouble." Great book on endurance.

Beantown Girls-Jane Healey

WWII had Clubmobiles, hosted by girls, that traveled to different army camps and handed out coffee, doughnuts, cigarettes and good cheer. This is a fictitious story of 4 girls who went to serve in Europe. 

The Unfinished Gift-Dan Welsh

Enjoyable novel. Wartime setting.

If you made it through to the bottom, here are some threads I see, that interestingly parallel with some of the events throughout the year. My note about the very first book, probably read in January, says "Then the story turns dark and pretty gruesome." Ummmm...Covid was on the way.

I already had a desire to learn more about loving those not like me, evident in the Muslim book I read early on. After George Floyd's death, I really wanted to build empathy for the black community. I appreciate the four books I picked for that purpose. The theme of learning how to work alongside those not like me was important this year when it came to politics, also. Justin Giboney's book and the Nation that Forgets God book were helpful in bringing balance about how to view the huge chasm between people surrounding the presidential election this year.

I believe we were set up for the extreme polarization that we saw among our legislators. Nancy Pearson's book, Total Truth certainly builds a case for how we as a culture let go of absolute truth and traded it for our own interpretations. How often did we hear about "fake" news? Lying became fashionable; our own president leading the way as one of the worst offenders. The term "alternate facts" was coined in this year. Is Farenheit 451 prophetic in how a society gradually devalues knowledge built on facts and holds no honor for the lessons learned in history? As we look at the future and wonder where a more progressive government will lead us, are we paving the way for left leaning policies because we've forgotten what it means to work together and not trust anyone outside our tribe? That fighting is the only way to get what we want because the other side is totally evil and not to be trusted? Will it matter that stories like the Oklahoma fathers, whose sons would have been considered enemies, can teach us how to offer forgiveness to one another? 

Will I draw closer to those I love, so I feel safe when my fragility and insecurities leave me wondering who I really am? Because I'm just starting retirement, how will I find those good endeavors for my life, now that I'm not going to work every day? 

The biographies on the list remind me that Godly people can inspire us to stay the course, and Mr. Gehman tells me how to endure so that I don't give up when the journey brings trouble. Covid was trouble, and it was good to be encouraged by his words.

Praise God for fiction books to lighten things up and bring a relief from heavy thinking and a brief reprieve from reality. I think my favorite in this genre was Mildred Budge. She made me laugh. I judged her as simple, until she was not, and she let me see how an ordinary life can make a difference.

I wonder what books I will discover in 2021?




Wednesday, January 20, 2021

Happy Is The One Who Inherits A Godly Legacy

Summer of 2019
Fall of 2020

 How many 67 year old women can call their 93 year old father anytime and hear his voice, full of joy and contentment, tell about his day and, then, hear his "I love you", as goodbyes are said? I am privileged to be one of them! We can't choose how our bodies and minds will grow old, but my dad exhibits how to keep a positive attitude in the process of aging. He has been blessed with good health and a sound mind, which he repeatedly gives God thanks for. So I write this tribute to him and his nonagenarian life.

In spite of a world wide pandemic that targeted his age group with its deadliness, Dad weathered the restrictions and isolation without complaining. While many in his retirement facility who needed healthcare services were locked away in their rooms from any outside contact, Dad could not invite anyone into his residence, but he did have the freedom to go out for groceries, appointments and necessities- in his own car, which he still drives himself. 

There is never a phone conversation with him where he doen't at some point say how grateful he is for good health and that he has a good place to live. He often speaks of his love for Jesus and his longing for all of his family to walk in that same salvation. During the beginning of sheltering, I know he missed the activity and communication with the other residents. But, he kept himself occupied with reading, napping, computering and the calls from family and friends. He found comfort in looking through family pictures, making contact with relatives who he had not heard from recently, or had never contacted before. He was rewarded with several interesting family stories and connections. Every received correspondence gets pinned to his office wall, an array of love messages, like well earned degrees and certificates, touting his lifetime achievements in relationships.

He takes care of his needs. As chewing food became more difficult, he explained his process of breaking down meat chunks in his little grinder. Dad enjoys getting carry outs from his favorite restaurants, stretching the food into portions he can save in the freezer for future meals. Today when we talked, I could hear the dryer tumbling his small load of wash.

Dad is a carpenter and fix-it man. It was a sad day when two of his joys were taken away because of the virus. He could no longer go to the woodshop on campus, and he could not longer volunteer at the non-profit Mennonite thrift store he had served at every day for the last 23 years. Although he had to put down hammer and saw for awhile, he continued to collect bags to fold for the clerks at the thrift store. 

It's common now to call and find him not at home. He's back to creating tables, foot stools and toaster tongs. Recently he told me of a new feature he's invented on his table design. Research and development was one of his career paths; his creativity hasn't stopped. He finds camaraderie with the other woodworking artists in the shop.

Evening chats will find him at home reading or folding bags. Even though he still can't volunteer in the store, he enjoys the brief contact with familiar faces when he drops the folded bags off. 

With less foot travel in the hallways where he lives, I haven't heard much recently about his walker repair service. Known on campus as the walker fix-it man, seniors bring him apparatuses that need new wheels, or other adjustments. He orders the new replacements on line and soon has the walker back to its owner. He even bought an extra walker to loan out to "customers" while repairs are being made. This business, as with the furniture he sells, takes in no money, but he only asks the buyer to donate a suggested amount to his non-profit.

If I live as long as my Dad, I pray to have his good health and sound mind. I want to find ways to keep giving to others. I understand how important hobbies are for end of life fulfillment. Above all, though, I want to maintain a grateful heart and cheery spirit. I believe that starts now, for all of us, so that the practice serves us well no matter what is ahead. 

Thank you, Dad, for this legacy. I know you'll read this soon. You're my biggest blog fan, and I appreciate your compliments and support. For all the times I've given you grief in my growing up years, I say thank you for loving me through it all and for modeling a life of faith. Now be careful in that workshop, and keep alert driving around! 

I love you!

Sunday, January 10, 2021

It's Coming!

 It's coming! I hear the sounds. The worship leader mentioned it this morning in the church service. Those calling us to prayer and repentance believe it's on the way. Our pastor is emphasizing Christian disciplines. Bloggers and Christian media are calling our attention to it. My vision of nursery preparation was posted here. Do you sense it? Are you ready?

God is up to something BIG! He's been preparing us for such a time as this.

The sad, sad day of insurrection in our nation's capitol this week is pushing us towards this God event. Behavior of government leaders is turning our hearts from trust in our democracy to the superior Kingdom that has and will prevail. 

Wouldn't you love to catch a glimpse of what God is doing in secret as he gets ready to unveil his next move of the Spirit?

How then do we prepare? I think it takes developing eyes that look for signs of where he's moving. Will I linger in prayer to hear his voice? He wants intimacy with us that will mess with our affections. Is he really our highest desire? It's time to find a way to renew interest in reading the Bible. (If you need a plan, I've found the Audio Bible App a great way to hear/read the Bible on a daily basis. Become part of a family that uses the app all over the world,  some since it started 15 years ago. Even though Brian has done the reading for all those years, each day is a fresh, new recording. Sometimes he'll add commentary at the end to challenge us to allow that day's words to change us. You can even leave prayer requests or pray for others needs). 

I thought this overview of some revivals of history was interesting and inspiring.

General Overview of Revivals (revival-library.org)

In considering what precipitated revivals, here is what Pat Morley says in his blog, Man in the Mirror.*

Ten Characteristics of Revivals

Each revival or awakening leaves its own heat signature; in 1740 youth led the way, in 1857 businessmen and prayer took center stage, and the 1906 Azusa Street revival was decidedly interracial. Yet all share common themes. What are the most frequently mentioned characteristics of revivals and awakenings in literature?

1. TIMING: Revivals emerge during times of spiritual and moral decline, which leads to intense prayer.

2. PRAYER: God puts a longing into the hearts of many to pray for revival.

3. THE WORD: The preaching or reading of God’s Word brings deep conviction and desire for Christ.

4. THE HOLY SPIRIT: The Holy Spirit takes people to a spiritual depth they could not achieve on their own.

5. CONVICTION: Affected sinners are inconsolable except in Christ.

6. GLORY FOR GOD: God receives praise, honor, and glory for bringing revival.

7. REFORMATION AND RENEWAL: Revival produces lasting fruit. New ministries are founded and society experiences a reform of morals as more and more people convert.

8. MANIFESTATIONS: Manifestations like fainting, groaning prayer, and miracles vary by culture and denomination.

9. MESSY: Revivals are messy–controversies swirl about miracles, abuses, excesses, suspicions, and theological disputes (to name but a few).

10. CYCLICAL: Revivals inevitably crest and decline. (Find citing for this list on Pat Morley's blog post)*

Is America Ripe for Revival Today? (Pat Morley)

A majority of Americans believe our country is going downhill. Yet church attendance as a percent of population has held steady since 1990, and probably since 1940.51 America added 50,000 new churches in the last 20 years of the 20th century to total 350,000.52 The number of born-again Christians has grown steadily to 46% of adults today.53 Given the state of moral and spiritual decay, how is that possible?

The answer is simple. Today, Christianity is prevalent but not powerful. The solution is spiritual revival and awakening.

We’ve not had an awakening in America of historic proportion for a long time. With such a great tradition of revival and awakening, a great base from which to start, and a great need to counteract the increasing moral and spiritual decline, our nation appears ripe for a fresh outpouring of God’s Spirit.

But history tells us that national revivals and awakenings cannot be manufactured. They are sovereign acts of mercy and grace by God Himself, when He supernaturally achieves in a short span what seems otherwise impossible. However, God loves to respond to the prayers of His people (e.g., 2 Chronicles 7:14).

While the decision belongs to God alone, He gives us the privilege of hastening the day through humble repentant prayer. Let us pray…." (Pat Morley)*

Be encouraged. God will not fail to come to us as we pray and develop a deep longing for his move among us. As we look at the revivals of the past, God redeems the most troubling and difficult places of humanity. He raised up youth, revived business men, crossed racial boundaries and churches increased in size and numbers. It feels like the time is ripe.

Have your way, Almighty One. Prepare our hearts to seek you.

May they fear him as long as the sun shines, as long as the moon remains, through all generations. May he be like rain that falls on freshly cut grass, like spring showers that water the earth. May the righteous flourish in his days and prosperity abound, until the moon is no more.…Ps. 72:5-7

*Retrieved from A Brief History of Spiritual Revival and Awakening in America - Man in the Mirror

Normal in a Not so Normal World

 We've rounded the corner to a new year, yet things remain the same. Social distancing, masks and no hugging continue. How are you encouraging yourself? What's keeping you alive these days?

In some ways life feels harder now than a month ago. When everyone was hunkered down, I felt in good company. Now many are moving on, and I struggle to know what I should or shouldn't do. So in the midst of this long time of sheltering, here are a few things that encourage me, keep me going and provide comfort and/or hope.

Our Bible Study of the book of Hebrews continues in person. Reading and studying the verses and then hearing others share their thoughts has been very encouraging. The author of Hebrews is passionate about warning his listeners to stand firm and not drift away from their faith, to not shrink back from pursing faith, to not give up staying in fellowship with other believers and to understand the supremacy of Jesus. He is above their past understanding and practice of following God's rules and regulations. They were just a shadow, or ways towards the present reality of the benefits of Christ's death and resurrection--ready access to his throne of grace, counting on his intercession on our behalf and being assured of better days ahead. We can live in this faith that gives us confidence and hope in our savior, Jesus, no matter what happens in the world around us.

Walking almost every day gives me time to clear my head in the crisp, cool air and to find time to pray, reflect or listen to podcasts. My favorite podcasts to listen to these days are: That Sounds Fun-Annie F. Downs, The Church Politics-Justin Giboney, Holy Post-Phil Vischer, and a new one that just popped up two weeks ago, Just Plain Wrong-Erin Milanese. Erin, Tillie and Abby discuss Amish novels and pick them apart for accuracy and enjoyment. This holds interest for me, not because I like Amish novels- I don't- but because these three gals were co-workers of mine at Goshen College. 

Recently, Kevin had some days off.  We drove to Bonneyville Park and wandered some trails. It was a nice change of scenery from our around-the-block exercise route. I enjoyed the sounds and smells of nature. There was even a tiny waterfall over a small dam.


Our Bonneyville Park Excursion




I got some new fuzzy socks for Christmas. Matching them with my sweats and leggings has brought me joy.  The littlest thing... and there are still some holiday treats lurking in the cupboard or hanging out on the counter that keep vying with my diet resolve. That peppermint bark and the party mix keep coming up winners! 

Making plans for the next day, also keeps me focused on what's ahead. Grocery shopping is an opportunity to dress up! Washing or baking can be in the plans, as well as the routines that somehow bring some semblance of comfort and anticipation. I eat breakfast with network news and take in a bit of cable news with my lunch. Lunch includes playing my Words With Friends turns. Making a date to walk with a friend or going out of my comfort zone and meeting someone for coffee, is something to look forward to.

I started keeping a place setting for Kevin and me at the counter, on the yellow stools, where we eat supper every night. The little act of making a pretty place to dine has brought delight. With a candle burning; the lighted picture frame in our view; and the snowmen plates to mark the season, we're feeling the coziness on cold winter nights. 

The phone calls to kids and grandkids, and continuing to mark birthdays and anniversaries with packages and love, and watching our Sunday night streaming shows are all part of what I'm doing to keep as much of my life as normal as possible.

What about you? Are you finding life fairly normal? If you work every day and go to church in person, maybe life doesn't feel too different. If you're more stuck at home, for whatever reason, what are you taking delight in?

In lieu of leaving comments, you can respond at ruthshow1@gmail.com. I welcome your thoughts.