Tuesday, November 21, 2023

Hawaiin Wedding

 Cody, our grandson, and Yahdira, his fiancĂ©, picked the place for their wedding and how could we not go on an exciting adventure to Hawaii to celebrate with them!

I had only dreamed of visiting Hawaii, but now it was becoming reality. The flights were secured at a fairly reasonable rate and within the next month, we had reserved a place to lodge where most of the other family was staying, Resort Lahana Kai on Maui. Next, we chose several excursions to make our trip memorable. Since we had just celebrated our 27th anniversary we decided to buy a catamaran sunset dinner cruise. For a more thrilling adventure we dared to try a bike ride down Haleakala, a 10,000-foot volcano. Our last planned event was a bus tour around the island of Oahu, the second island we would visit in our last few days before flying home.

We arrived in Maui, June 27, found the tram from the airport to the car rental, and lost a chunk of unplanned money in reserving the car. The agent had a foreign accent and paid little attention to the reservation I had previously made online. We waffled on whether we needed additional insurance and decided we did which wouldn't have been necessary, and when we had signed the agreement it was much more than the online reservation had indicated it would be. Our lack of experience was taken advantage of, but hopefully we've learned from the experience. From there we waited in the rental garage about an hour for our names to come to the top of a long list of renters and then, for a car to be returned for our use. The first available car for us was a red Dodge Challenger with a Hemi engine. We agreed to the bright sporty vehicle, feeling the euphoria of driving something we would never own and yet realistically counting the added dollars of gas we'd be using in the non-economy car. Adding some sweetness to our long wait was meeting up with Kira's parents who had landed in Maui about the same time as us and ended up in line with us at the same rental garage. 

Our condo unit was spacious and well equipped with a lanai that gave us a side view through some palm trees of the ocean. We were on the second floor and across the inner courtyard from the  unit where Josh and his family were staying. Sandy and Marvin, the other grandparents, took us to Walmart where we purchased some food for the meals we would eat at "home". (Kira's parents had been to Maui numerous times so they showed us around the town of Kehi, where we were staying.)



The second night after our arrival we sailed on the dinner cruise. I loved the time with the wind and spray of the ocean on my face, drinking a glass of wine and watching the sky cloak itself with the colors of sunset. The buffet displayed excellent food, a bit lukewarm, but tasty. I met a couple from California who had previously lived in West Lafayette, IN. and enjoyed connecting with them. (You'll notice my pronouns are personal rather than collective. Unfortunately, Kevin got seasick and missed out on enjoying the beauty and fun of the ride.) Besides the sunset, we witnessed a beautiful rainbow spanning the sky with each end visibly touching the horizon, and nothing to block the view.



The next two days before the wedding, we had time to do some visiting with the family over meals in town, beach hopping to some beautiful coastlines where we watched kite surfers and visited shops for souvenirs. 

The wedding happened at sunset on a Kehi beach. Each set of parents and at least one set of grandparents from each side, along with siblings attended. Cody and Yadira were beautifully dressed with traditional garb and married by an officiator they had secured online and had never met before. He was an older gentleman and a bit comical in his native Hawaiian outfit, carrying a shophar and bag around his waist. He conducted a lighthearted ceremony making us all laugh as he instructed the couple what to say and how to say it, sometimes with loud lilting voices and fun-filled ways to say the solemn vows. He often invoked prayers in his native language, but we all understood the Numbers 6, Biblical blessing, he spoke over them at the end. There were skads of pictures captured afterwards, and as dark approached we were on our way to a steakhouse about 30 miles away where we all celebrated with a matrimony-worthy meal.



Our best adventure began about four hours later. After trying to get some sleep, we cruised through the dark in our sporty vehicle at 2 am, toward the biking company. Inside we donned wind breaker jackets and pants. After all the other adventure seekers arrived, we received instructions for riding and then boarded a bus for the hour's ride to the 10,000-foot top of Haleakala. We stepped out into 40 degrees weather, huddled along the railing facing the volcano base and watched the sky just beyond for the first rays of sunrise. Worth the early morning wake-up! As the day brightened, we marveled at the view, signed certificates in the gift shop to mark our visit and then hiked a short walk downhill to flat-topped ridges with good backdrops for picture taking. The bus then carried us to our next stop where we straddled the bikes they had unloaded for us and started coasting down the section of road with switchback curves. Thrilling and exhilarating! We had full control of how fast we went. I briefly cast my eyes from the road to the amazing view over the edge of the volcano. Amazing! As the road began to level out, we rode into a small rodeo town where we found a coffee shop and a place to breakfast. It was a short distance from there back to the bike company. Definitely a highlight of our Maui visit!



After seeing the Jesus Revolution movie earlier, I had looked up churches that Greg Laurie pastored. Besides several large campuses in California, I knew he had one in Hawaii. I googled the location which was only 45 minutes away from Kehi. We headed north Sunday morning to take in the service. The drive took us along the west coast of Maui with gorgeous scenery of ocean and mountains. The worship at Harvest Chapel was familiar, and Levi Lusko was the speaker via satellite. After the service we purchases sandwiches and chips at a grocer and found a spot along the drive back home to eat and take in the gorgeous ocean view. 

That afternoon we went with Josh and family to Lahaina, an historic town just north of Kehi. We had dinner and shopped and took pictures by the huge, old banyan tree in the center square. How sad to hear a month after we returned that this town was destroyed by wildfire!

July 4th, Kevin and I flew to Oahu for a two-night stay in Honolulu. We strolled Waikiki beach, found a brewery downtown for supper and the next day took a bus trip to tour around the island. Our guide shared interesting facts about Hawaii, and we enjoyed seeing the tourist sights-Diamond Head, Waimea Falls, Blowhole, a Macadamia Nut Farm, Dole pineapple plant, Chinaman's Hat, Turtle Island and drove by a section of celebrity houses. Our stop for lunch was at a roadside stand that served shrimp dinners. We sat picnic style on benches and observed mongoose coming out from the bush to snatch pieces of fruit thrown down for them. The tour was a great way to experience the island. We flew back to Maui Thursday afternoon and spent the night at an Airbnb close to the airport where our flight home took off Friday morning. (The flight was delayed because of a bee in the airplane!)


I am so thankful for the privilege of seeing the most beautiful place on earth that I've experienced. Mountains and oceans were visible all the time and the climate is perfect. Someday I'd like to go back, but just to have been there once, was truly satisfying.